May 2026
May 2026
It’s Dementia Awareness Week, which highlights many challenges. But one that is often missed is how the loss of a pet can unexpectedly derail a vulnerable person and that is why thoughtful planning for both people and their pets is essential for families.
Consultant Solicitor & Notary Public
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Tel: +44 (0) 1306 502251
Email: Liz Dalgetty
Losing a pet – and the legal and emotional consequences
As someone with recent and personal experience of losing a much-loved Hearing Dog, it got me thinking about how our assistance dogs are more than just pets. They are our companions, a source of independence, and, they give us confidence and security. When that support is suddenly gone, the impact is profound – but add Dementia into that and it can bring in other uncertainties and heightened emotions.
For those living with Dementia or Alzheimer’s, the grief can be deeply distressing and, in some cases, repeatedly experienced as memory fluctuates. This can heighten anxiety and confusion for both the individual and their family which is distressing for all.
Planning ahead for pets: Wills, LPAs and Letters of Wishes
This week is Dementia Action Week, a campaign highlighted by the Alzheimer’s Society charity which seeks to raise awareness of how dementia affects people in their everyday lives and how professionals can better support them
It’s a good time to be planning ahead if a vulnerable loved one has a pet. Pet ownership should form part of any approach to estate and incapacity planning. Illness, disability or cognitive decline can arise unexpectedly and without proper planning, pets may be left in uncertain or unsuitable circumstances.
Clear provisions in a will, alongside detailed letters of wishes, can set out how pets should be cared for, who should take responsibility for them and how associated costs will be met. Attorneys acting under a Lasting Power of Attorney should also be given clear guidance, particularly where a client may lose capacity but their pet remains a central part of their life.
Providing reassurance that a much-loved animal will be safe and cared for can significantly reduce anxiety.
A human approach to the law
The loss of a pet is never “just” the loss of an animal. It is the loss of companionship, routine and, for many, a vital source of comfort and security.
If you would like some advice or guidance about how you can plan for pets, or vulnerable loved ones, contact Downs Solicitors to see how we can help.
Below are some links to charities who can provide support and advice depending on your circumstances. It is essential to talk about these issues and to get help for your family.
Hearing Dogs for Deaf People
https://www.hearingdogs.org.uk/
Canine Partners
https://caninepartners.org.uk/
Guide Dogs for the Blind
The Cinnamon trust
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